Yes, I am a writer !!!

"Yes, I am a writer". How often have you dreamed of saying this?? For me its like every time I write a blog, each time I read a novel, I dream of writing a novel of my own and getting it published. And people giving me feedback saying what a lovely story and me smiling back at them. When I dream of this I get a smile on my face. I keep wondering I will write a novel for sure and will get it published. Then suddenly something strikes my mind. I ponder what if no one likes my novel, what if I get only negative feedbacks, what if I get no appreciation for my work, What if no one buys my novel. Will I be able to handle failure, will I ever dare to write another novel again. What if people laugh at me? These thoughts just makes me wonder if I am ready to write or should I read some novels and blogs and check with people's feedback about my writing.

How often have similar thoughts cross your mind? Its high time.....we should take people's feedback but you yourself are your best judge because a person can never lie to himself or herself. So judge yourself. You can never please everyone in this world. Some will like what you write and some won't. So why is it so important to concentrate on who doesn't like what you write rather than being happy that many others like what you write, moreover everyone in the world is not a writer. You should be happy that you are writing and should be proud that you are creative and you have the caliber to write.

Appreciate yourself. There are some of the things which a person should do which gives their soul a satisfaction and pleasure, and thats the reason I write without worrying who likes and who doesn't. I write for myself.........

I Know ....

I know you are there when I need your support.....
I I know you are there when I need a shoulder to cry.....
I know you are there when I have no one to talk to....
I know you are there whenever I miss you....
I know you are there even when I am alone....
And most of all I know you love me and you are only mine...

You are my love and life

I lost my heart from the day you came into my life,
You hold me tight in my thoughts, all day and night,
I pray that all my life I live with you,
Because I just see you as my love and life..............

Can I ?????

Can I keep you and never let you go?
Can I hold your hand and hug you tight?
Can I hide you from the entire world?
Can I keep staring at your innocent face?
Can I be in your arms forever?
Can I tell the whole world how lucky I am to have you in my life?

You are the one.......

Trust me honey, You are the one....
whom my eyes seek,
whom my heart felt,
whom I believe the most,
whom my destiny wants,
whom I wake up for,
whom I love more than anything,
whom I live for,
Whom I will die for.....

One Love is all I need !!!!

This is the most difficult question for me. whenever people ask me " Tell me something about yourself". Although I answer them about where I live, about my educational background, company I am working with. But when I am all alone and I think what I like? What are my hobbies and interests? I actually get confused. I seriously don't know myself. Sometimes I react to the same circumstances in a different approach. I really wonder if I am suffering from split personality? I have never been satisfied and I never appreciated myself for any achievements. I always said, " It happened because it was meant to happen, it was written in my fate".

And most of all I always wonder what makes me happy? what is that thing which gives me immense pleasure. And one fine day I got answers to all the questions of mine, when I met the love of my life - my Soldier. And then I realized, the only thing that makes me happy is when I hug him. I feel so secure and blessed. I feel I have embraced the entire world. Nothing gives me more happiness than being with him. I realized my hobby is dancing which I do quite a lot now a days as I am always happy.I pull him close to me and we do ball dancing and that brings a smile on my face and a light up my eyes.

And I realized that all I need to be happy is him. Nothing can replace true love. No Money, No Gadgets, No Luxury can bring a feeling of contentment to your heart like a true love can. With each passing day I am falling in love with my soldier.....

DECORATIVE DIYA

Decorative Diyas for diwali

As you all know the festival of light - diwali is round the corner and its time to gear up yourself with the ideas for decorating your homes with lights, rangoli and diyas. we have seen in the market now a days many different and decorative diyas are available which are very costly as well. so in this blog I shared with you all a few diyas which i have decorated at home. these are very easy to prepare and are cost efficient as well. and most of all it gives you an immense plaesure when you decorate your home with your own hand painted diyas, hope you will like this.

Expectations !!! Should we expect or not???????

Have you ever realized why we feel hurt inside when people ignore us? Why you feel sad when no one stands for you? Why we feel cheated when someone we love, someone we rely on, leaves us and holds someone else's hand? Have you felt people use you? They use like a ladder to climb the steps of success and once they reach where they want, they don't even recognize you? They learn from you and are not even  thankful to you?

The only answer to all the above questions is "EXPECTATIONS"

                                          

                                                  It’s good to say - don't expect from others, not to have any expectations from people, but come on yaar, after all we are human beings and we do have expectations from the people , we expect a bit from our near and dear ones. I personally don't believe there is anyone in this world who doesn't even have a little bit of expectation from others. 

                                                       At least we all expect a good behaviour from others, we expect a note of thanks when we do something for others, we expect a polite behaviour from our colleagues whom you have helped when they were struggling with their work, we expect our friends to help us, to listen to us when are grumpy and gloomy. We expect our partner to hug us and say - "Everything will be fine baby, I am always with you", We expect our parents to understand the reason for our failure. We expect to be loved by our loved ones  when we love them truly, we expect to get good marks when we study a lot, we expect to get a promotion when we work hard in office, We expect to look good when we buy new apparels, we expect to get a seat in a crowded bus, we expect to be wished by all our friends on our birthday. We expect to be praised when we dress up. We expect our favourite celebrity to win dance competition in JHALAK DIKHLAJA or NACH BALIYE. We expect whenever INDIA plays match with any country it should win the match.

                                       

                                                              In our day to day life not even a single day passes by when we don't expect. We all know there's a saying that there is no life without hope, the same way I feel there is no life without expectation.....there is nothing wrong in expecting...even if you don't expect intentionally....your subconscious mind will have some kind of expectation for sure.....its humanly impossible to lead a life without expectation...Expectation is commonly mistaken as benefit but when we want INDIA to win the match, we do not have any personal benefit….cricket players get paid for it. When we expect our favourite film star to get the award we don’t get benefited from  it either. Sometimes expectation is only a pleasure, a satisfaction. But we should try to restrict our expectations with only a few people and not expect from the entire world... :)