Desire to be happy !!!

In today’s world human mind is full of conflict. Conflict in office, conflict in family and relations, conflict between nations and most of all conflict between happiness and unhappiness. Have you ever realized what exactly happiness is? For some happiness is shopping, for some travelling is happiness, for some acquiring new gadgets is happiness. And for some, happiness is when their child is born. 

            But all these reasons for being happy are not ever lasting. And we are back to square one with the same question again, what exactly is happiness. As said by a philosopher - "Happiness is a state of mind". It’s none other than us who decides whether we want to be happy or sad. We ourselves are responsible for our own happiness or despair.

We restrict and limit our happiness by drawing a border. This border is nothing but our "reasons" to be happy. Some says - “I would have been so happy if I would have been a millionaire"; some says - "The happiest moment for me will be when I will buy a BMW" and so on. But the trauma is people tend to ignore what they have at present and keep craving for something better. And these reasons which we choose to be happy are actually our desires. We all desire something or the other from life. It’s natural and there is nothing wrong with it. But people get frustrated when their desires are not fulfilled. And a frustrated and disturbed mind can never be happy.

We all know very well that nothing is achieved in life without desire. So "desire to be happy". Promise yourself to be happy every day. Appreciate small things and beauty around you. Feel happy from your heart and soul when you see your kid's innocent smile, Feel happy when someone loves you and cares for you. Feel happy when you see sunset with your partner's hand in hand. Don't confine your happiness to materialistic things. Happiness is beyond that.

No one can make you happy or sad unless and until you want. It’s up to you to make a choice. Remember, we have the caliber to choose. Choose Life, Love and choose happiness. Your life is a result of your choices.

Yes, I am a writer !!!

"Yes, I am a writer". How often have you dreamed of saying this?? For me its like every time I write a blog, each time I read a novel, I dream of writing a novel of my own and getting it published. And people giving me feedback saying what a lovely story and me smiling back at them. When I dream of this I get a smile on my face. I keep wondering I will write a novel for sure and will get it published. Then suddenly something strikes my mind. I ponder what if no one likes my novel, what if I get only negative feedbacks, what if I get no appreciation for my work, What if no one buys my novel. Will I be able to handle failure, will I ever dare to write another novel again. What if people laugh at me? These thoughts just makes me wonder if I am ready to write or should I read some novels and blogs and check with people's feedback about my writing.

How often have similar thoughts cross your mind? Its high time.....we should take people's feedback but you yourself are your best judge because a person can never lie to himself or herself. So judge yourself. You can never please everyone in this world. Some will like what you write and some won't. So why is it so important to concentrate on who doesn't like what you write rather than being happy that many others like what you write, moreover everyone in the world is not a writer. You should be happy that you are writing and should be proud that you are creative and you have the caliber to write.

Appreciate yourself. There are some of the things which a person should do which gives their soul a satisfaction and pleasure, and thats the reason I write without worrying who likes and who doesn't. I write for myself.........

I Know ....

I know you are there when I need your support.....
I I know you are there when I need a shoulder to cry.....
I know you are there when I have no one to talk to....
I know you are there whenever I miss you....
I know you are there even when I am alone....
And most of all I know you love me and you are only mine...

You are my love and life

I lost my heart from the day you came into my life,
You hold me tight in my thoughts, all day and night,
I pray that all my life I live with you,
Because I just see you as my love and life..............

Can I ?????

Can I keep you and never let you go?
Can I hold your hand and hug you tight?
Can I hide you from the entire world?
Can I keep staring at your innocent face?
Can I be in your arms forever?
Can I tell the whole world how lucky I am to have you in my life?

You are the one.......

Trust me honey, You are the one....
whom my eyes seek,
whom my heart felt,
whom I believe the most,
whom my destiny wants,
whom I wake up for,
whom I love more than anything,
whom I live for,
Whom I will die for.....

One Love is all I need !!!!

This is the most difficult question for me. whenever people ask me " Tell me something about yourself". Although I answer them about where I live, about my educational background, company I am working with. But when I am all alone and I think what I like? What are my hobbies and interests? I actually get confused. I seriously don't know myself. Sometimes I react to the same circumstances in a different approach. I really wonder if I am suffering from split personality? I have never been satisfied and I never appreciated myself for any achievements. I always said, " It happened because it was meant to happen, it was written in my fate".

And most of all I always wonder what makes me happy? what is that thing which gives me immense pleasure. And one fine day I got answers to all the questions of mine, when I met the love of my life - my Soldier. And then I realized, the only thing that makes me happy is when I hug him. I feel so secure and blessed. I feel I have embraced the entire world. Nothing gives me more happiness than being with him. I realized my hobby is dancing which I do quite a lot now a days as I am always happy.I pull him close to me and we do ball dancing and that brings a smile on my face and a light up my eyes.

And I realized that all I need to be happy is him. Nothing can replace true love. No Money, No Gadgets, No Luxury can bring a feeling of contentment to your heart like a true love can. With each passing day I am falling in love with my soldier.....