Monday 26 January 2015

                                                  How we fail successfully

We see many successful people around us.But have we ever wondered what that person might have sacrificed to gain. No one ever see's the journey of a person, a person is judged only by his/her success or failure. When you succeed no one will talk about your determination and dedication. But when you fail people will definetly talk about your aptitude and attitude. If you are still facing the same problems which you were facing years ago, then its the right time to start looking at it from a different perspective.Insanity is defined as doing the same thing over and over again while expecting different results.

There are myriad reasons why we fail. First and foremost is the "Denial of failure". It takes a lot to accept failure. But once we accept it, it becomes easy to learn from the mistake. We have often heard "Failing to plan". But there is no such thing as Fool Proof plan. So prepare yourself for the worst and don't get too attached to your plans. Don't think what people will think about you if you fail. As it will be only you who will go through it, so be mentally strong. Things can go wrong with anyone.

We often fail sometimes as we don't know what we want from life. Think what you need. We can't get everything without loosing something. Many fail because they don't do what they know. Instead they try to work on something about which they have no knowledge. So, Surround yourself with right people, take risk, come out of your comfort zone and don't give up.Giving up is the number one reason people fail. As long as you are actively trying, you have not failed yet. But once you give up, success will not arrive unexpectedly.
                         
 Be Calm and remind yourself you are good enough. Don't expect miracle to occur overnight. Get hold of yourself and move ahead. Do not suffer in silence.Get over whatever has happened and move on with your life. Don't stick around with same plan if you fail, Plan out a new plan and work on it.
Our response towards failure determines our success.The fees for learning from failure may seem too high sometimes, but in the long run you will somehow discover it a worthwhile price to pay. If you keep trying every day, surely you will upgrade from “decent” to “good” to “really good” until it becomes something great

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