My Heaven My Home

A place of peace,

Spending moments each,

When Love I seek,

It’s my home I reach.

Place where I dance and sing,

Laughter is often heard to ring.

Place where we all live and dine,
Gathered together during meal time.

Waging the tail, someone waits,

For me to come home soon.

And it keeps waiting,

Whether its Dawn, Dusk or Noon.

Where tiny stains on walls,

Shows artistry of lil fingers.

And small little feet follows you,

All around and dingers.

My home is a mirror,

Of my soul and style.

As I’ve designed it,

To make us smile.

Watching the sunset,

You and me alone.

I felt I am in safe haven,

In my Heaven, my Home.

 A Man I Love

There's a man I Love
Yonder any parity

This man rules my heart
With his love and purity

My man in Olive green
Who is dauntless and never fear

With whom I will spend all my life
staying close and near

Loving him each moment
Waiting for him all the time

You make my world paradise
Your words are like chime

I want you to know
You mean the world to me

With you my love
time will just flee

To live in this world all I need is
Your unconditional love and arms to hold me

Living togther forever till eternity
You and me make a perfect "WE"

                                                  How we fail successfully

We see many successful people around us.But have we ever wondered what that person might have sacrificed to gain. No one ever see's the journey of a person, a person is judged only by his/her success or failure. When you succeed no one will talk about your determination and dedication. But when you fail people will definetly talk about your aptitude and attitude. If you are still facing the same problems which you were facing years ago, then its the right time to start looking at it from a different perspective.Insanity is defined as doing the same thing over and over again while expecting different results.

There are myriad reasons why we fail. First and foremost is the "Denial of failure". It takes a lot to accept failure. But once we accept it, it becomes easy to learn from the mistake. We have often heard "Failing to plan". But there is no such thing as Fool Proof plan. So prepare yourself for the worst and don't get too attached to your plans. Don't think what people will think about you if you fail. As it will be only you who will go through it, so be mentally strong. Things can go wrong with anyone.

We often fail sometimes as we don't know what we want from life. Think what you need. We can't get everything without loosing something. Many fail because they don't do what they know. Instead they try to work on something about which they have no knowledge. So, Surround yourself with right people, take risk, come out of your comfort zone and don't give up.Giving up is the number one reason people fail. As long as you are actively trying, you have not failed yet. But once you give up, success will not arrive unexpectedly.
                         
 Be Calm and remind yourself you are good enough. Don't expect miracle to occur overnight. Get hold of yourself and move ahead. Do not suffer in silence.Get over whatever has happened and move on with your life. Don't stick around with same plan if you fail, Plan out a new plan and work on it.
Our response towards failure determines our success.The fees for learning from failure may seem too high sometimes, but in the long run you will somehow discover it a worthwhile price to pay. If you keep trying every day, surely you will upgrade from “decent” to “good” to “really good” until it becomes something great

                                                         New Year's Resolution


Many people will think, how to make next year better than this year and will probably even make a new year's resolution. They will be trying to change old habits, create new ones, work harder, spend more time with family, earn more money, quit smoking, lose weight, and many more aims that will probably be forgotten before the first month is over.

Unless you are a highly motivated and ambitious person, you will have to continually review your position throughout the year. One big exciting change isn't enough to change our behavior. Creating something new in our life will take effort and positive action on our part.

Last year you did the best you could, you won some and lost some. With your new hindsight, knowledge and skills, you can make this new year better than last. Do you know what was the most valuable thing you gained from last year? It's the ability to think more strategically. No matter whether you felt like you had a successful year or not, you can take the lessons and learn from your our experiences. What worked? What didn't? Did you act too aggressively? Or did you lost opportunities? How can you do better next time? What are the insights you've gained from them? You have made it this far through many other complicated and trying times. Use what you've gained from your life to advance now.

Be unusual this year and make your new year's resolution a living resolution that remains a part of your life for longer than January.Pick one resolution at a time. Make it specific and real. Practice it every day. And every day, you'll be one step closer to making your resolution a reality
It's never too late to start over.Remember, no time is bad for a good deed.  If you weren't happy with yesterday, try something different today. Don't stay stuck. Good luck, and here's to a prosperous 2015!!

Desire to be happy !!!

In today’s world human mind is full of conflict. Conflict in office, conflict in family and relations, conflict between nations and most of all conflict between happiness and unhappiness. Have you ever realized what exactly happiness is? For some happiness is shopping, for some travelling is happiness, for some acquiring new gadgets is happiness. And for some, happiness is when their child is born. 

            But all these reasons for being happy are not ever lasting. And we are back to square one with the same question again, what exactly is happiness. As said by a philosopher - "Happiness is a state of mind". It’s none other than us who decides whether we want to be happy or sad. We ourselves are responsible for our own happiness or despair.

We restrict and limit our happiness by drawing a border. This border is nothing but our "reasons" to be happy. Some says - “I would have been so happy if I would have been a millionaire"; some says - "The happiest moment for me will be when I will buy a BMW" and so on. But the trauma is people tend to ignore what they have at present and keep craving for something better. And these reasons which we choose to be happy are actually our desires. We all desire something or the other from life. It’s natural and there is nothing wrong with it. But people get frustrated when their desires are not fulfilled. And a frustrated and disturbed mind can never be happy.

We all know very well that nothing is achieved in life without desire. So "desire to be happy". Promise yourself to be happy every day. Appreciate small things and beauty around you. Feel happy from your heart and soul when you see your kid's innocent smile, Feel happy when someone loves you and cares for you. Feel happy when you see sunset with your partner's hand in hand. Don't confine your happiness to materialistic things. Happiness is beyond that.

No one can make you happy or sad unless and until you want. It’s up to you to make a choice. Remember, we have the caliber to choose. Choose Life, Love and choose happiness. Your life is a result of your choices.

Yes, I am a writer !!!

"Yes, I am a writer". How often have you dreamed of saying this?? For me its like every time I write a blog, each time I read a novel, I dream of writing a novel of my own and getting it published. And people giving me feedback saying what a lovely story and me smiling back at them. When I dream of this I get a smile on my face. I keep wondering I will write a novel for sure and will get it published. Then suddenly something strikes my mind. I ponder what if no one likes my novel, what if I get only negative feedbacks, what if I get no appreciation for my work, What if no one buys my novel. Will I be able to handle failure, will I ever dare to write another novel again. What if people laugh at me? These thoughts just makes me wonder if I am ready to write or should I read some novels and blogs and check with people's feedback about my writing.

How often have similar thoughts cross your mind? Its high time.....we should take people's feedback but you yourself are your best judge because a person can never lie to himself or herself. So judge yourself. You can never please everyone in this world. Some will like what you write and some won't. So why is it so important to concentrate on who doesn't like what you write rather than being happy that many others like what you write, moreover everyone in the world is not a writer. You should be happy that you are writing and should be proud that you are creative and you have the caliber to write.

Appreciate yourself. There are some of the things which a person should do which gives their soul a satisfaction and pleasure, and thats the reason I write without worrying who likes and who doesn't. I write for myself.........

I Know ....

I know you are there when I need your support.....
I I know you are there when I need a shoulder to cry.....
I know you are there when I have no one to talk to....
I know you are there whenever I miss you....
I know you are there even when I am alone....
And most of all I know you love me and you are only mine...

You are my love and life

I lost my heart from the day you came into my life,
You hold me tight in my thoughts, all day and night,
I pray that all my life I live with you,
Because I just see you as my love and life..............

Can I ?????

Can I keep you and never let you go?
Can I hold your hand and hug you tight?
Can I hide you from the entire world?
Can I keep staring at your innocent face?
Can I be in your arms forever?
Can I tell the whole world how lucky I am to have you in my life?

You are the one.......

Trust me honey, You are the one....
whom my eyes seek,
whom my heart felt,
whom I believe the most,
whom my destiny wants,
whom I wake up for,
whom I love more than anything,
whom I live for,
Whom I will die for.....

One Love is all I need !!!!

This is the most difficult question for me. whenever people ask me " Tell me something about yourself". Although I answer them about where I live, about my educational background, company I am working with. But when I am all alone and I think what I like? What are my hobbies and interests? I actually get confused. I seriously don't know myself. Sometimes I react to the same circumstances in a different approach. I really wonder if I am suffering from split personality? I have never been satisfied and I never appreciated myself for any achievements. I always said, " It happened because it was meant to happen, it was written in my fate".

And most of all I always wonder what makes me happy? what is that thing which gives me immense pleasure. And one fine day I got answers to all the questions of mine, when I met the love of my life - my Soldier. And then I realized, the only thing that makes me happy is when I hug him. I feel so secure and blessed. I feel I have embraced the entire world. Nothing gives me more happiness than being with him. I realized my hobby is dancing which I do quite a lot now a days as I am always happy.I pull him close to me and we do ball dancing and that brings a smile on my face and a light up my eyes.

And I realized that all I need to be happy is him. Nothing can replace true love. No Money, No Gadgets, No Luxury can bring a feeling of contentment to your heart like a true love can. With each passing day I am falling in love with my soldier.....

DECORATIVE DIYA

Decorative Diyas for diwali

As you all know the festival of light - diwali is round the corner and its time to gear up yourself with the ideas for decorating your homes with lights, rangoli and diyas. we have seen in the market now a days many different and decorative diyas are available which are very costly as well. so in this blog I shared with you all a few diyas which i have decorated at home. these are very easy to prepare and are cost efficient as well. and most of all it gives you an immense plaesure when you decorate your home with your own hand painted diyas, hope you will like this.

Expectations !!! Should we expect or not???????

Have you ever realized why we feel hurt inside when people ignore us? Why you feel sad when no one stands for you? Why we feel cheated when someone we love, someone we rely on, leaves us and holds someone else's hand? Have you felt people use you? They use like a ladder to climb the steps of success and once they reach where they want, they don't even recognize you? They learn from you and are not even  thankful to you?

The only answer to all the above questions is "EXPECTATIONS"

                                          

                                                  It’s good to say - don't expect from others, not to have any expectations from people, but come on yaar, after all we are human beings and we do have expectations from the people , we expect a bit from our near and dear ones. I personally don't believe there is anyone in this world who doesn't even have a little bit of expectation from others. 

                                                       At least we all expect a good behaviour from others, we expect a note of thanks when we do something for others, we expect a polite behaviour from our colleagues whom you have helped when they were struggling with their work, we expect our friends to help us, to listen to us when are grumpy and gloomy. We expect our partner to hug us and say - "Everything will be fine baby, I am always with you", We expect our parents to understand the reason for our failure. We expect to be loved by our loved ones  when we love them truly, we expect to get good marks when we study a lot, we expect to get a promotion when we work hard in office, We expect to look good when we buy new apparels, we expect to get a seat in a crowded bus, we expect to be wished by all our friends on our birthday. We expect to be praised when we dress up. We expect our favourite celebrity to win dance competition in JHALAK DIKHLAJA or NACH BALIYE. We expect whenever INDIA plays match with any country it should win the match.

                                       

                                                              In our day to day life not even a single day passes by when we don't expect. We all know there's a saying that there is no life without hope, the same way I feel there is no life without expectation.....there is nothing wrong in expecting...even if you don't expect intentionally....your subconscious mind will have some kind of expectation for sure.....its humanly impossible to lead a life without expectation...Expectation is commonly mistaken as benefit but when we want INDIA to win the match, we do not have any personal benefit….cricket players get paid for it. When we expect our favourite film star to get the award we don’t get benefited from  it either. Sometimes expectation is only a pleasure, a satisfaction. But we should try to restrict our expectations with only a few people and not expect from the entire world... :)